Regardless of the fret size you choose, those frets are just the best. They're very hard and polish up exceptionally smooth, then stay that way. I don't know why rumors persist that they'll break strings; it simply isn't true.
Add that to the feeling that you're playing on oiled glass, the ease your bends and vibratos are executed, and you'll be so pleased you made that choice you'll become an evangelist about them.
If you like, you can have them send me the neck, I'll do it reasonably and forward it on to you. I use diamond and ceramic files, so tool wear isn't an issue for me. Even with shipping, it'll probably cost less than a local shop and I have a lot of experience with these frets.