Man, I have been waiting for a dilemma like this to pop off just so I can share some real insight.:blob7:
I'M a lefty guitarist. My brother is a lefty bassist. My older brother is a lefty guitarist whom we picked it up from.
We knew what we were getting into from the moment we picked up our guitars. The guitar world is just ridiculous with the way they treat our kind.
I never had a real nice guitar, and nobody ever taught us ANYTHING except on our own volition.
It's the funniest thing, I ask to play people's guitars and never mention my hand orientation.
If I get complimented at all (which, REALISTICLY speaking, is 9 out of ten times) I just look up and remind people that I've been playing their own guitar better than them UPSIDE DOWN.
Honestly, the difficulty of being a lefty in the guitar world is SECRETLY AND TRULY based on how difficult it is for you to be a guitarist in general.
Playing upside down/backwards makes a few simple things undoable, but it EASILY renders some of the tougher things a cakewalk. It also helps you visualize things better, in my opinion, because eventually you begin to read scale and chord diagrams ambidexterously.
I liked the fact that somebody brought up the fact that nobody will touch your lefty- it's true AND I LOVE IT :guitaristgif:
Honestly, Mark, if your son wants it bad enough his hand orientation is largely negligible and completely irrelevant. It is MORE than enough that, as a father, you would encourage him.
My father did not do incredibly much to encourage us to play (though he WAS a guitarist, himself), and sometimes I imagine that, were he still around, we might be playing together today had things gone even just a little bit differently.:sad1:
My vote is let him be a lefty, the guitar world will come around to it eventually, largely with the help of such companies like Warmoth and Carvin.
Plus, it can't hurt his skill. It'll only be a roadblock if you make it one.