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I've played every kind of neck finish from raw to oil, to ebmm, to satin, to full on gloss.
A few observations:
My warmoth 59 in gloss got the scotchbrite treatment. It feels slick now. Much like my satin fatback.
Ibanez poly satin goes to straight gloss.
Not all gloss is equal. My hand glides on some better than others. Yamaha does a nice one for instance
Warmoth's satin neck finish is my absolute favorite. Yeah, it does gloss up as you play it, but it is so smooth!! Nothing else comes close. It seems like it took a looooooong time to cure and not be sticky though. I'm talking 8 to 10 years. One day I picked it up, after not using it for well over a year, and it was slick. And I've been in love ever since.
While I like raw, ebmm, and oil finishes, I prefer an actual hard finish on my necks for longevity and maintenance reasons.