Hi guys, I'm new to the forum, but this thread caught my eye, so I thought I'd jump in.
I recently did a relic job for a friend. He brought me his Fender vintage hot rod '62 strat (which was mint condition) and asked me to make it feel and play like his road-worn tele... only with a much more believable look. Because I've known this guy and played with him for 15 years, I knew how his guitar would wear out, but even still, I had to do a few home visits and really watch him play to know where to go with it. If it was anyone else, I'd never had attempted it. In the end, he was elated, but I was torn; I knew it had not seen fifty years of smokey bars and thousands of miles of highway... plus, I just liked the way it looked before, -even in spite of the sort of believable broke-in "favorite pair of jeans" feel.
I'm with the guys at the beginning of the thread; no way is Warmoth gonna be able to replicate each individual's wear and tear, and to their satisfaction at that. There are those out there who specialize in making beautifully ugly guitars, -I say send your guitar to them if the relic is your thing, but leave making beautifully beautiful guitar parts to Warmoth!