First of all, thank you all so much for the tips. I really appreciate you guys taking the time to spell this stuff out and answer my stupid questions, even as I flip flop on the finish I want. For the record, I really do want to do it the "right" way. I'm spending a lot of money on all the parts for this thing, and to cut corners and wind up with a bad looking finish would really bum me out.
My original plan was this:
-Candy turquoise body (telecaster bass - 72 p-bass 4 string body) with probably a white pick guard
-Pickups: a MusicMan bridge pickup, and a standard p-bass neck pickup, which is a whole other discussion that I'll get to on the appropriate section of this board at a later date
-Neck: I was thinking it would be cool to do an indian rosewood neck with a light maple fretboard, but warmoth doesn't seem to offer than combo, so maybe I'll just go with a maple neck like this one: http://www.warmoth.com/Showcase/ShowcaseNeck.aspx?Bass=1&Body=1&Shape=40&Type=17&i=BN6399#.VunqLClm1Rk
Again, since seeing how nice the wood grain is I was thinking of just doing a dark stain, but the more I think about it, I might just want to stick with the original plan. I thought about a dyed stain, but I haven't yet seen one that I really like for this build.
I live in New Jersey, right outside of New York City.
Finally - referring to my original question, I've really looked over this body and it really is very smooth, before I've even sanded it at all (which of course I will do before doing anything else, and in between just about every step of the way). I already bought the grain filler and am happy to do the work, but again, I really don't know that the grain filler would do anything. I'm honestly not trying to skip steps, but it's super smooth with no divets or anything - do I really need it?
Pictures of the body are below. In the third, you can see that my roommate thought it would be funny to stuff a fake, rubber dog turd where the bridge goes.