I always expect that my heart and mind might be changed. For me, that's the point of life: to keep growing. I agree that flames and arguments are out of place here. I simply don't understand, as I outlined earlier, and that bothers me. I'm not too closeminded to get it, and I'm not too ignorant to get it. I feel like I understand the cultural and social anthropological undercurrents here, and I can't for the life of me find a reason to be more offended for the native person than for the people he's joking about. I find it mildly annoying and in somewhat poor taste, but not so much that I cared more than saying to myself, "that's dumb, lol."
What I care about is why everyone seems so quick to be super offended lately. It doesn't make sense to me, and is out of keeping with how I've understood people here to be.
-Mark