Thanks for the replies guys but now I have bigger issues. I thought I was better at this than I am. I massively screwed up though. I was doing a fret level for probably the 10th or so time and I made the first 3 frets triangular. The neck was off, I made sure it was flat using a notched straight edge and I let it sit for about 20 mins before I checked it again and it was still flat so I started leveling. I used a sharpie so I knew when I was hitting all the frets and they were level... except they never did. I ended up taking quite a bit off of of the first 3 frets but still never touched the 5-9th. The fret rocker still showed some rocking. I checked level with the notched straight edge and it was still level. There was only slight rocking so I figured it was probably good enough. I went to recrown with my trusty StewMac center z-file and it was taking quite a while but someone said stainless frets work the same as regular frets they just take longer. So I was going... remarking and going... and going... remarking and going... and now they are triangles instead of nice rounded frets. *$(%&(#%&#!!! Tinhey are horrible, I massively screwed up. I already have a replacement neck in my wish list but I just wanted to see how hard refretting is because I feel like that's the only thing that'll save this neck.
Maybe I'll just go back to buying off the rack. #@&% my life.