so i returned the aria, got the captivate, aria was $129 after $100 mail in rebate or in store credit, so i spent $100 on accesories in store, sd card, case, beilt clip, headphones. captivate was $199 so i returned the phone and all the accessories in exchange for the captivate and it was basically a one for one exchange after the restocking fee.
htc had many great features over all the competition, they had support for flash in android 2.1! but the screen just was to hard to read in the daylight and i had to use a third party app to kill a number of processes to conserve battery power, yeah i could have gotten an anti glare screen cover but there is just something about the captivates amazing screen. as for flash support ill just have to wait for the 2.2 upgrade. still need to see what the battery life is like but i figure with the amoled screen and 45nano meter arcitecture of the processor it aught to be better than the htc, not to mention the reviews ive read and spec sheet seem to all agree with that assumption.
update:
after a few days with the captivate i know i made the right choice, you can argue features vs. spec's all day but overall the call quality on the samsung is outstanding! best andriod "PHONE" if you ask me. i mean what good is a droid x or incredible or evo if the battery is always dead and the call quality sux. the battery life is good especially for a 1 Ghz phone. audio is also good through speaker phone and is outstanding through the samsumg in ear headphones which im a fan of, no ear buds for me. the audio was also great on the aria for headphone use but not from the onboard speakers, the stock headphones for aria were earbuds not in ear. i was a bit disapointed at the lack of a second camera for video calls and lack of a camera flash and support for flash but the overall experiance is great. managing apps and widgets and features to get a balance between convenience and battery life on the aria was work and an annoyance, the captivate is just a joy to use. if i were on sprint id wait for the epic over the evo, that should be an amazing phone with the only drawback being the greater thickness from the slide out keyboard. i know you are all tired of hearing about cell phones so im gonna shut up now!