Yeah, the only way I could enter patterns with a mouse is to tape it to my sticks. My hope is that within a year or so, I'll be able to play 1) well enough that I can play electronic drums, and clean them up in editing software. 2) Well enough that doing so doesn't take a lot of fiddling.
In the meantime, the boy and I are have the time of our lives. Some people play ball with their kids. Some take them hiking. Some people people read books with their kids. He loves all that stuff too. But his favorite is playing music with dad.
My musical goals are fairly pedestrian. (At least I think so. I always have a knack for starting something because I want to do the very hardest possible thing. Let's get a welder. You know, I could weld aluminum foil into shapes with this thing.... well not really.) I like hard rock with BIG arresting grooves. AC/DC. Joan Jett. 38 Special. And a lot of 70's funk as long as it's big patterns and not subdivided into McDonald's chopped onion sized bits). It's not fast, it may be hard to count, but I generally play by feel.
I'm getting there. Still not sure what to do with the toms (maybe they're to hide behind), but I'm getting better at filling on the snare with drags and rolls. Given my stated goal, I might just sell my other kit (and pieces I've accumulated via Craigslist) and just keep a Kick/Snare/Hats/Ride to write with. I can tell already that I can play stuff that I would NEVER be able to program. Or perhaps more importantly, think to try programming. Unless you're a masochist, I'd never think to say "Hey, let's put in a triplet feel buzz roll on 4&e ahead of the next downbeat." Or follow up snare hits with a kick flam. Yeah, I can't do 64th notes on the kick drum. I don't want to. (God help me if the kiddo wants to. He doesn't know that Double Bass pedals exist, but he has already invented the concept using spare pedals he's found around the music room. Given he already loves Cookie Monster - Cookie Monster + double bass pedals = death metal.)