it's probably best to start with simplicity first. just swap the pots for 500k and see if the singles start to sound too bright before trying to add resistors. if it is felt that 250k is needed then you can find a pair 470 or 510k k resistor to short the singles individually. or if the switches are dual pole you may be able to use a single resistor, or even the tone pot to load the circuit to 250k. but we can get into that after your friend tries the guitar at 500k for everything. the only reason i even suggest swapping the pots at all is the single sized buckers have lighter windings and less robust magnets, part of the output the have comes from less loading. it has a little higher risk of sounding like mud if you stay with 250k than a larger humbucker in my oppinion.
loading the circuit creates a low pass filter with the pickups inductance, it also prevents a resonant spike created by the inductance of the pickup and the capacitance of the cable, humbuckers have the resonant spike in a more desirable range on the audible spectrum so they need less loading to sound good, more load can cut the output and make them sound darker. singles risk the "icepick in the ear" effect if the rest of the guitar is very bright or the strings are light. but that's also why we have tone controls and it's easier to subtract treble than add it so that's why i say to try it without any special circuit treatment, it may be perfectly acceptable to your friend.
another reason for 500k in gibsons is also that they have dual volumes that both load the guitar in parallel in the middle position. the truth is that this alone may be what set the tradition, gibsons had 500k and fenders had 250k, latter people with pickups swapped into fenders started to notice something was different and rationalized the science into it rather than the pot choice being ideal, there was a convention already in place that may have had more to do with manufacturers getting the best preices on one or the other. as long as your not an order of magnitude away you will likely find the pot choice acceptable.