I'm building an alder J-bass and have been testing on some alder pieces with different oil finishes (Danish, Tru, Tung). I'm planning to stain the body a deep orange color, and found a General Finishes stain that is just the color I want and looks great. The issue is that, being a water-based stain, it raises the grain a bit, and oiling over that, I've discovered on my test pieces, leaves them feeling rougher than I'd like (I should have known...). I really want to use this stain because of the color, but am wondering how I can knock the grain back while preserving the good deep color of the stain. I saw on the reranch site the suggestion of wetting the bare wood with a damp cloth first, sanding down the grain with 320 grit paper, then applying the stain. Has anyone tried this, or are their other suggestions for getting a nice, smooth but deeply-stained surface on alder?