I've interacted with some of you for years, on and off. Some not as much, but I still love your guitar creations.
That said, I want to share something with you all. I'm 50 years old. I grew up without a father. Lots of details I'm not going to go into, but I've laid the groundwork.
Now, there are a few larger DNA testing sites: Family Tree DNA, 23 and Me, and AncestryDNA. For those looking for biological relatives, testing at these sites matches an individual up with their DNA relatives. They give you an estimate as to your relationship in your list of matches, from parent all the way down to 8th cousin.
For someone looking for their biological parent(s), sometimes all it takes is to get a hit on a 1st or 2nd cousin who is willing to talk. Some get really lucky.
After a couple of years of triangulating matches and multiple dead ends, I gave up for a few months. I had a number of 3rd cousins and beyond, but noone close. I did learn I was half-Mexican. Since I look Irish (mother's side), that was a surprise, in and of itself.
A couple of days ago, I had the random thought to check my kits at each of the three testing sites to see if I had any new matches. FTDNA, no. 23andMe, no. Ancestry, yes, new match... Relationship: (username) is your Father.
WTF!?
OK, so I sent the man a message. He last logged in on October 6th. I'm waiting to hear back. I'm 50 years old and my father is out there.
That said, I want to share something with you all. I'm 50 years old. I grew up without a father. Lots of details I'm not going to go into, but I've laid the groundwork.
Now, there are a few larger DNA testing sites: Family Tree DNA, 23 and Me, and AncestryDNA. For those looking for biological relatives, testing at these sites matches an individual up with their DNA relatives. They give you an estimate as to your relationship in your list of matches, from parent all the way down to 8th cousin.
For someone looking for their biological parent(s), sometimes all it takes is to get a hit on a 1st or 2nd cousin who is willing to talk. Some get really lucky.
After a couple of years of triangulating matches and multiple dead ends, I gave up for a few months. I had a number of 3rd cousins and beyond, but noone close. I did learn I was half-Mexican. Since I look Irish (mother's side), that was a surprise, in and of itself.
A couple of days ago, I had the random thought to check my kits at each of the three testing sites to see if I had any new matches. FTDNA, no. 23andMe, no. Ancestry, yes, new match... Relationship: (username) is your Father.
WTF!?
OK, so I sent the man a message. He last logged in on October 6th. I'm waiting to hear back. I'm 50 years old and my father is out there.