Check out Wudtone. They use a hard oil finish with dyes and pigments mixed in—though clear is also an option—and though Warmoth may not count them specifically (I'm not sure if Warmoth's even heard of them), their finishes are completely protective as far as wood stability goes. Harder than other oil finishes, softer than nitro and better penetration than either.
Cagey said:
the premium price I pay for Warmoth parts means they've been treated properly before I see them
They're not. This is one of the major reasons why I still buy Warmoth bodies but don't touch their necks and steer other people away from their necks, too. The extra heavy Warmoth truss rod seems to do a lot to keep the necks stable, but if you want the more normal, lighter truss rod, you better finish that neck
really well and basically treat it as though Warmoth did nothing to condition the wood. Go hit up a proper luthier or larger brand custom shop to see how neck would should actually be treated and you'll immediately see a night-and-day difference compared to how Warmoth necks arrive at your door, assuming we're talking about unfinished necks.
... But that's sort of to be expected. Premium price be damned, Warmoth crank out parts faster than anybody else. That comes at a price, but literal and figurative. The wood's not really conditioned well, just as the nuts aren't cut fully, the frets aren't crowned and the fret ends and fretboard sides aren't at all rolled. If you want your stuff to be completely cared for, a more user-friendly product, you either have to ask Warmoth to slow down their entire production and business model or you need to go to another company.